Beyond the postcards: like a second home

Probably what fascinates most about Thailand is the super relaxed atmosphere you breathe as soon as you step foot here. You sense that, even in the craziest places, there is always an underlying calm, an invitation to take it easy: Thais often say sabai sabai (take it easy, relax) or mai pen rai (never mind, it’s all good). I’m not entirely convinced by the cliché of the “Land of Smiles” because it’s a rather superficial generalization; however, I have seen in the people a way of living and facing the day that is infinitely more relaxed than ours.

This is one of the places where I have traveled and lived the most, and it is undoubtedly among the countries I know best in the world. It was my absolute first encounter with this part of the planet. I arrived by chance, simply because it was the destination with the cheapest plane ticket, but right from the start, it proved to be electrifying. I still remember my first impact: it was evening, but the incredible movement in the streets made it seem like the sun had never set.

I stayed, and then I returned countless times, exploring both the greener areas of the North and the bluer ones of the South. It is a country dotted with villages and towns with a slow, relaxed pace, yet with a vitality all their own—a decidedly more serene approach to life. Between jungle-covered mountains, golden temples, and islands lapped by crystal-clear waters, Thailand changes its face constantly, offering vastly different experiences within just a few hours of travel. Watching it slip by from the window of a bus or a train is a silent enchantment that shifts with every curve.

The Bangkok Universe

And then there’s Bangkok. A universe unto itself: eclectic, vibrant, so fascinating that I have never stopped exploring it, even after years. It can be pure madness, with truly wild nights, but it also knows how to surprise you by revealing pockets of peace—old, quiet wooden houses surrounded by palm trees, sleeping at the feet of giants made of steel and glass. One of my absolute favorite places is the Chao Phraya River, where I just love to sit and observe. A beer in hand at sunset, while the colors of the sky change and the relentless flow of life on the water begins to slow down.

Culture and Lightness

Thailand is famous for its beaches and Pad Thai, but beneath that touristy veneer lies a unique ecosystem of natural and cultural wealth. It is a fairly easy country to travel around and boasts some of the best food on the planet, especially if you are a fan of spicy flavors. Golden temples, delicately ornamented roofs, and serene statues speak of a profound aesthetic sensibility far removed from our own, while the city street food offers an almost infinite variety of captivating flavors.

Deep down, I believe people come here mainly because it makes you feel free. I’m not talking about the toxic freedom of doing whatever you want without respecting others and the local culture—something you unfortunately see too often—but of a much deeper freedom. It is as if the soul, all of a sudden, felt untethered from the burdens of everyday life, leaving room for a lightness that elsewhere seems almost forgotten.

Curated experiences: what not to miss in Thailand, according to me.

Bangkok’s Heartbeat: Get lost in this immense, vibrant capital that never sleeps. Hop on a boat to explore the Chao Phraya River and its hidden canals, drifting from luxury shopping malls to incense-filled shrines on every street corner. Treat yourself to a Thai massage to recharge and dive into an endless night, whether wandering through night markets or tasting what is, without a doubt, some of the best street food on the planet.

Echoes of the Kingdom of Siam: Explore the ancient ruins of the historical capitals, Ayutthaya and Sukhothai. People often ask me which one to choose if time is short: the answer is both! But if your days are numbered, keep in mind that Ayutthaya is just an hour from Bangkok, while Sukhothai requires a longer journey. Walking among the ruins of these magical temples offers an emotion that is hard to describe.

The North and the Open Road: Discover the spirituality of Chiang Mai, a rapidly expanding city that still holds onto its ancient soul. It’s a digital nomad’s paradise: exceptional food, temples everywhere, and world-class massage schools. From here, rent a motorbike and venture out on the famous loops through the green mountains. Push on to Chiang Rai for the Golden Triangle, but don’t forget the quieter, off-the-beaten-path gems like Nan and Chiang Khan—the latter, overlooking the Mekong, is a true jewel of wooden houses and tranquillity.

The Call of the Border (Myanmar): There are areas where the border is just a line on a map. Mae Hong Son is a town that already feels like Myanmar, surrounded by fascinating, lush greenery. Heading down the frontier, outposts like Mae Sariang, Mae Sot, and the beautiful Sangkhla Buri will make you feel like you’re already “on the other side,” with their wooden bridges and suspended atmospheres.

Isan and the Rural Soul: For those who want to go where few travelers venture, the Northeast (Isan) towards the Laos border is an authentic land with incredibly spicy food. Cities like Khon Kaen or the gateway to the Mekong, Nong Khai, offer a glimpse into a truer, less polished Thailand.

Primordial Nature: Leave the concrete behind for Khao Sok or Khao Yai National Parks. An incredible jungle trek awaits you among lakes, waterfalls, and caves. Try to sleep in a treehouse: being woken up at dawn by the sounds of the wildlife is a priceless experience.

The Best of the Sea: Beyond the famous coasts of the Andaman Sea (Krabi, Phuket, Koh Lanta) and the Gulf (Koh Tao, Koh Phangan), the South hides slower treasures. I’m thinking of the wild Koh Phayam or Prachuap Khiri Khan, a seaside town so incredibly relaxed that it feels like time has stood still.

My Advice: If you can, time your trip to coincide with a major festival like Songkran (the water New Year) or Loy Krathong (the festival of lanterns). And, golden rule: always eat at the night markets. The cuisine here reaches absolute peaks of deliciousness.

Some info about Thailand:

Capital of Thailand: Bangkok

Population: Circa 71.8 milioni di abitanti

Official language: Thai

Currency: Thai Baht

Calling Code for Thailand: +66

Visa – ESSENTIAL UPDATE: The rules have changed for the better! Today, Italian citizens (and many other nationalities) receive a 60-day visa exemption upon arrival at the airport (no longer just 30 days as in the past!). You only need a passport with at least 6 months of validity. Once in the country, you can extend this permit for an additional 30 days by visiting a local Immigration Office.

Connectivity and Transport: Buying a SIM card at the airport or in convenience stores (like 7-Eleven) is extremely easy and cheap—TrueMove or AIS are excellent choices. Avoid the “tourist SIM” scams! They are usually overpriced and unnecessary. Wi-Fi is now fast, stable, and ubiquitous in hotels, bars, and restaurants, making Thailand one of the most “connected” countries in Southeast Asia.


N.B. Always check official channels before you leave: although the recent 60-day extensions are in effect, government immigration regulations can be subject to adjustments!

Thailand, when to go?

You can plan a trip to Thailand in practically any month of the year, but you need to understand the geography of the monsoons, which run from June to October (peaking in September). It is always quite hot, with temperatures becoming scorching between March and May.

Peak Season: The months from November to February offer the mildest and driest climate. This is the perfect high season to visit the entire country (in the North, up in the mountains, it can even get chilly at night!).

Winter Sea (West Coast – Andaman Sea): If you are traveling between November and March, head for the Andaman Sea (Krabi, Phuket, Phi Phi, Koh Lipe). During this period, the weather is perfect, whereas it rains heavily from April to October.

Summer Sea (East Coast – The Gulf): If you are traveling during the European summer months (from June to late August), the winning choice is the Gulf of Thailand (Koh Samui, Koh Phangan, Koh Tao). This coast is shielded from the main monsoon and offers great weather while storms are raging on the other side!

 

For more information on when to go to Thailand and for more detailed information on weather conditions month by month and based on geographical areas, take a look at my article:

Best time to go to Thailand, when to go and climate!

 

 

Thai Food
Thai cuisine is one of the most appreciated and well-known in Asia, probably all over the world too. The tastes are intense but at the same time delicate, an explosion of different flavors that will make you want to taste the local delicacies several times.

Festivals in Thailand

Thailand, like many other Asian countries, has lots of colorful and animated festivals and celebrations held throughout the year.

Find out in my article month by month when going to celebrate around there!

Thailand festivals and events!